Let me give you a big hug. I know that pain of jeans shopping.
I’m you, only a decade older now and I have found the secret. The work around. Comfort, good looking ass, still as professional as I want to be. The secret is I don’t wear pants. Or jeans. Or jeggings. I already have to wear a bra every day so why should I subject myself to a waist band at all? 90% of my wardrobe is dresses. Dresses for each and every occasion. I know that sounds scary in your 20s but trust me, you will get used to wearing a dress soon and once you do you will never go back.
Don't listen to that voice that says ‘too girly’. You are a girl and being a girl grants you the freedom to never ever wear a jeans again. Embrace it. (also getting ready in the morning will go twice as fast.)