This is a rather strange question to me, because I do have a button I can push to reliably provide me with a sexual orgasm. It’s called a clitoris. Sure, it takes me a couple of minutes of simulation, but here’s the rub, I tend to enjoy those minutes more than the orgasm itself.

So you’re kind of asking if the lover in my head is better than the lover in my bed, right?

Honestly, just because I can give myself a orgasm reliably and relatively quickly doesn’t mean I do not enjoy, and long for, partnered sex. Sex is more than just the orgasm. Partnered sex is much more than that.

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